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		<title>Photos from Whidbey</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 16:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_1043" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/cowcampaign.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1043" title="cowcampaign" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/cowcampaign-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">My first indication that I&#39;m not where I thought I was: a campaign sign on Whidbey Island</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1044" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/whidbey.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1044" title="whidbey" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/whidbey-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Between 11:10 and 12:30 I took my books down to the rocky beach and did homework. If I turned to face away from the ocean, this was my view. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1045" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/knotty.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1045" title="knotty" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/knotty-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">And now, some up-close things I spotted on the beach. First, this cool infinity-shaped whorl on some driftwood. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1046" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/rocks.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1046" title="rocks" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/rocks-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The beach is mostly rocky. Almost every clustering of rocks is a mini still-life. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1047" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/driftwood2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1047" title="driftwood2" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/driftwood2-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sometimes I was reminded that there is life outside of reading, writing, new friends, and the rocky beach. This piece of driftwood was one such reminder. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1048" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/nancysteve.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1048" title="nancysteve" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/nancysteve-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sometimes I spotted other writing students on the beach. Here, Nancy and Steve, on a rock-hunting expedition. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1049" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/shipsinchannel.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1049" title="shipsinchannel" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/shipsinchannel-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">from the building that serves as our classrooms, you can see lots of ships going by. these huge cruise ships were a shock, though. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1050" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/phantomhouse.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1050" title="phantomhouse" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/phantomhouse-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Fort Casey was built in 1897. Obviously, some of the buildings have disappeared. Ripe for ghost stories!</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1051" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/earlyview.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1051" title="earlyview" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/earlyview-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">After my morning run, I met my roommate Cyn on our porch for coffee each morning. This is the view from our porch. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1052" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/everymorning.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1052" title="everymorning" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/everymorning-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">At 7:25 or so Stefon would walk by on his way to breakfast. (Cyn and I opted out.)</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1053" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/palrobert.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1053" title="palrobert" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/palrobert-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sometimes Robert stopped by for coffee and a chat. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1054" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/eachmorning.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1054" title="eachmorning" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/eachmorning-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Here&#39;s what it felt like. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1055" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/livingrm.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1055" title="livingrm" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/livingrm-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Some days it was too cold. Then we decamped to living room and pot-bellied stove fire. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1056" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/breadpudding.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1056" title="breadpudding" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/breadpudding-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">We were fed quite well at Whidbey. Dessert every night if we wanted it. I am a sucker for bread pudding. Stefon thinks this is funny. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1057" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/polarbears.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1057" title="polarbears" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/polarbears-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">One evening we decided it would be a good idea to jump into Puget Sound. It must have been about 54 degrees in there. Not bad. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1058" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/eekamoose.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1058" title="eekamoose" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/eekamoose-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">One day, Merone, Cyn and I went into town for lunch. I was enjoying mussels when I looked up and spotted this. I think my first coherent thought was &quot;Oh, gross. Moose drool.&quot;</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1059" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/friends.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1059" title="friends" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/friends-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">We took the ferry to get off of Whidbey and onto the mainland for the drive home. From left to right, Nancy, Stefon, Jackie, and Mandy. Until January, friends!</p></div>
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		<title>The People in My Neighborhood: The Planner</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 13:53:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes, you meet people in one capacity, and you never think that you&#8217;ll see them in other capacities. Sometimes our friends are silo&#8217;ed. They stay in their individual little places. We call them when we want specific things: I have friends I got out Drinking with; friends I Do Outdoors Stuff with; friends I Eat [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes, you meet people in one capacity, and you never think that you&#8217;ll see them in other capacities. Sometimes our friends are silo&#8217;ed. They stay in their individual little places. We call them when we want specific things: I have friends I got out Drinking with; friends I Do Outdoors Stuff with; friends I Eat with, friends I Cook For. I have friends I Shop With, and Movie friends, and then there are the friends I Learn Stuff With.</p>
<p>I am squashily fond of the friends with whom I Chat Deep into the Night With Only a Bottle of Wine to Entertain Us.</p>
<p>My friend Peter the Planner is one of those, but he didn&#8217;t start out that. I met Peter in early July of 2002. i remember because this is the same weekend I got together with Jim. We were camping at Round Valley, mountain bike camping; and we packed in and packed out all of our stuff. We led a quick clinic on flats and cables and stuff, and then were off.</p>
<p>I know that Peter had said he was going to meet us somewhere en route. I&#8217;d never met the guy before. I was doing some pro bono media work for a non-profit <a href="http://nyara.org">racing association</a> that we were both a part of. At some point on the trail a really sexy bike went by pedaled by a guy with impossibly long legs and perfect riding form&#8211;it looked as if his riding was effortless, and I was immediately annoyed&#8211;why couldn&#8217;t I ride like that?</p>
<p>Hello, Peter. Nice to meet you.</p>
<p>At some point after that we all went to see a <a href="http://www.stepintoliquid.com/">movie</a> together; and then we went out to celebrate Karen, Peter&#8217;s wife, on her birthday, at a vegetarian joint&#8211;was it VP2?&#8211;and then we went to a triathlon clinic together, and shortly after that we did a triathlon together, where we off-road people reveled in the three miles of trail run that broke up all of the awful asphalt; we had dinner together that night, and he came out a couple of times to meet me for drinks, and</p>
<p>Then</p>
<p>I</p>
<p>Moved.</p>
<p>To Chicago.</p>
<p>And I began to notice what happens when you leave the right people: They Call You.</p>
<p>And keep track of you. And when you come home, they make every effort to see you.</p>
<p>Peter and i haven&#8217;t done anything athletic together in years. But I know that if we wanted to, we could make it happen.</p>
<p>While I was gone, I learned a lot about Peter:</p>
<ul>
<li> His writing, when he does it, is remarkably evocative of whatever it is he&#8217;s feeling at the time. (If you think this is easy, you don&#8217;t  know jack, and you need to read more.)</li>
<li>His sense of organization is ridiculously good.</li>
<li>He is a tangential thinker: His train of thought goes in different directions and then he actually connects the dots, and whatever he&#8217;s saying is almost always useful.</li>
<li>He knows Stuff. Or knows where to find the answer.</li>
<li>He is the right person to talk to when things look grey and confused. Peter will either add some color or sit with you until the cloud passes.</li>
</ul>
<p>Peter is the planner not only because he works for a major urban-planning think tank, but also because when I am having problems organizing my incredibly disorganized brain and life, I know he can help, and that he will be vested.</p>
<p>I met Peter mountain biking, but our lives revolve around people now. Here is proof:</p>

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<p>We go to movies. We go to museums. We have picnics on the High Line together. Sometimes Jim and I get to see Karen, and Peter and Karen&#8217;s hilarious and wonderful twins, John and Henry.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t it nice when someone you thought would only ever fit in one area of your life suddenly spills over into everything else?</p>
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		<title>Photo crazy</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 15:48:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_999" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00052.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-999" title="DSC00052" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00052-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Is it art? </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1000" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00055.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1000" title="DSC00055" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00055-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sprocket doesn&#39;t think so. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1001" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00053.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1001" title="DSC00053" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00053-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I call this one &quot;study in noodles&quot;</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1002" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00067.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1002" title="DSC00067" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00067-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">We went to the PepsiCo Gardens with Jim&#39;s family. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1003" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00066.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1003" title="DSC00066" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00066-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I like this sculpture of a bear crawling out of the pond. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1004" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00068.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1004" title="DSC00068" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00068-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I also like the filagree pattern this tree casts on the ground. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1005" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00071.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1005" title="DSC00071" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00071-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Wow, look at the pooch on me. Not the dog, the belly. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1006" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00075.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1006" title="DSC00075" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00075-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Lillies! I like!</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1007" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00076.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1007" title="DSC00076" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00076-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">big fat tadpoles were on every stalk of the lily pads. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1008" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00080.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1008" title="DSC00080" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00080-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Love this angular tree trunk. Dunno what happened to it. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1009" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00095.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1009" title="DSC00095" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00095-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I went to Philadelphia last Wednesday. Nice city. Great clients. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1010" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00098.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1010" title="DSC00098" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00098-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The sky over White Plains on Friday evening was wonderfully Hudson-River-School-like.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1011" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00099.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1011" title="DSC00099" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00099-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I caught Jim mooning over this deluxe edition of Stratego.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1012" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00100.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1012" title="DSC00100" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00100-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">We took our friend Anna, her soon-to-be stepsons, and her fiance on a hike in Harriman. Here are the stepsons.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1014" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00103.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1014" title="DSC00103" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00103-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Here&#39;s crazy dog Sassafras, Joe, Anna, me, El Jefe, and Sprocket,</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1015" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00104.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1015" title="DSC00104" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00104-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Sprocket got wet. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1016" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00107.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1016" title="DSC00107" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00107-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I went into the city yesterday to meet my friend Alexandra for lunch. She was in from Chicago. We had a picnic on the High Line and I got a burnt nose.  </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1017" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00110.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1017" title="DSC00110" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00110-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The MTA set up a TV in Grand Central so everyone could watch The World Cup finals. Beat sitting in a sweaty bar. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_1018" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00115.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1018" title="DSC00115" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00115-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Perfect clouds again over White Plains</p></div>
<div id="attachment_1019" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00116.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1019" title="DSC00116" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00116-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Look! The Ritz-Carlton building is the same color as the sky! Or maybe it&#39;s just a reflection. <img src='http://thegooddirt.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p></div>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Jul 2010 14:48:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alison and I went to the New York Botanical Gardens last weekend. We had a terrific time despite hot and sticky climes, and I took some photos. So nice to see some new plants and immerse myself in greenery.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_984" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00015.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-984" title="DSC00015" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00015-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I like this photo of Alison.</p></div>
<p>Alison and I went to the <a href="http://www.nybg.org">New York Botanical Gardens</a> last weekend. We had a terrific time despite hot and sticky climes, and I took some photos. So nice to see some new plants and immerse myself in greenery.</p>
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<div id="attachment_983" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00013.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-983" title="DSC00013" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00013-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Gorgeous trees greeted us at the Botanical Gardens.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_985" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00017.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-985" title="DSC00017" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00017-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This plant looks like it was inspired by a roller coaster. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_986" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00018.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-986" title="DSC00018" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00018-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This one was reminiscent of a waterfall, but felt much pricklier. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_987" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00019.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-987" title="DSC00019" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00019-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This one, called, appropriately, Lamb&#39;s Ear, was very comforting to the touch. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_989" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00021.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-989  " title="DSC00021" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00021-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Not a copper sculpture, a cabbage. Gorgeous. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_990" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00024.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-990" title="DSC00024" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00024-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I have left the NYBG and entered Whoville. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_991" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00026.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-991" title="DSC00026" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00026-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Alison and me. We are spotted because we stood under a sprinkler for a bit; it was that hot. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_992" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00028.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-992" title="DSC00028" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00028-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Not a leather bookbinding, tree bark. Warm and lovely. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_993" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00030.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-993" title="DSC00030" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00030-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Not a stencil in the sky; a breed of maple leaf. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_994" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00032.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-994" title="DSC00032" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00032-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">love these colors. the tonality is so soothing. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_995" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00035.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-995" title="DSC00035" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/DSC00035-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">butt-cactus. yuck. </p></div>
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		<title>The People in My Neighborhood: The Cyclist</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 15:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I still remember the first time I ever saw Aileen outside of our usual haunts. We were both on the Upper West Side. She had a plastic carrier bag in one hand and was standing in front of a plate-glass window looking at some clothing items. The shop was Clothingline, when they used to have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I still remember the first time I ever saw Aileen outside of our usual haunts. We were both on the Upper West Side. She had a plastic carrier bag in one hand and was standing in front of a plate-glass window looking at some clothing items. The shop was <a href="http://www.clothingline.com">Clothingline</a>, when they used to have a brick-and-mortar, and I remember standing just near her, wondering if it was the same girl that&#8230;</p>
<p>Yep, it was. We exchanged hellos, and then some random platitudes. I can&#8217;t remember when we started hanging out after that, or if we actually did. I do know that when we did actually start shooting the shit together, it was in ways that were so far removed from the way we actually met that you might consider it lucky that we met at all.</p>
<p>So enough dancing around the shrubbery&#8211;how did we actually meet?</p>
<p>Answer: On bikes, both strong as can be, both confident, both just discovering, I think, what kind of a person extreme competency makes you.</p>
<p>Aileen and I met in 1997, during training for the 1997 Boston-New York AIDS Ride. I did it with my then-boyfriend, who lived in Boston. I was living in New York, and I trained for the thing largely in my living room, on a hydraulic trainer. But I did go on one or two training rides, and it was there that I met Aileen. We would both go on to complete the 1998 AIDS Ride together. Aileen would ride in support of an AIDS Vaccine across Alaska later, and I would ride across Montana in support of the same cause the year following.</p>
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<p>Like I say, I&#8217;d never seen her in anything other than spandex before the day I saw her standing in front of Clothingline, but I do remember thinking that this woman of bright smile and open demeanor was one to keep track of.</p>
<p>We floated in and out of each others&#8217; lives for years; and then we lost track of each other. Later, we floated back into each others&#8217; orbits, and have known each other through a fair number of birthdays. I have spent two New Years with Aileen. One was a year in the height of my social life, when I had to hit five New Year&#8217;s parties, dragging along a boyfriend who wasn&#8217;t too keen on all of the shuffling. It was just before Aileen moved to Colorado.</p>
<p>Aileen was, at the time, the coolest person in my immediate circle. She was the quintessential New York girl, the one I wanted to be, with a terrific apartment in Hell&#8217;s Kitchen, two cats, her bike stored neatly away. She had a bar at which everyone knew her name. She knew the firemen and the guys who rode Harleys; her hairstylist was her best friend; she introduced me to lots of different people. She played the guitar. Her friends were vastly different from her. She picked up and moved to Colorado, a couple years after I was considering, and eventually not ready to, move to Montana.</p>
<p>Later, she would be a rock in what might be the absolute most confusing time in my life. But I had no way of knowing this. In fact, Aileen has been there through the Married Man, the Cocaine Addict, the Ego-Maniac, and countless friend rotations. (Why do we give our ex-boyfriends capitalized nicknames, but not our ex-friends? Maybe I should start. Well, there&#8217;s Dead-to-Me, but that&#8217;s about it&#8230;)</p>
<p>I also didn&#8217;t know, at the time, that Aileen can write. And if now I am eternally frustrated that she doesn&#8217;t do more with her writing, I also know that our relationship is indicative of the way I&#8217;d like to approach life, and my fragile wish that more of the world will eventually know Aileen&#8217;s writing: what&#8217;s meant to be eventually will be.</p>
<p>Aileen&#8217;s bike is in a corner now, and has been for a little while. It&#8217;s a lovely hat-rack. But it&#8217;s kept free of dust, and Aileen knows it&#8217;s a beautiful machine. She also knows that she&#8217;d like to get back on it. Wouldn&#8217;t it be nice if, one day, Aileen and I got to ride our bicycles again together?</p>
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		<title>The People In My Neighborhood: The Teacher</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jun 2010 14:15:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Almost at the bottom of my second cup of coffee. In accordance with my self-imposed rule of posting more than once a month on this thing, here&#8217;s a series of posts about the past week and the people in it. But really, it&#8217;s about the varied people in my life, and how they got there.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Almost at the bottom of my second cup of coffee. In accordance with my self-imposed rule of posting more than once a month on this thing, here&#8217;s a series of posts about the past week and the people in it. But really, it&#8217;s about the varied people in my life, and how they got there.</p>
<p>On Wednesday I went down to my friend Alan&#8217;s school, <a href="http://bxscience.edu">Bronx Science</a>, to talk about <a href="http://www.shelterboxusa.org">ShelterBox</a>. Alan and I have been trying to put this together for a long time. He managed to squeeze me into his Comparative Government class, all seniors, all two and a half weeks from graduating.</p>
<div id="attachment_968" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/bxsci2.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-968" title="bxsci2" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/bxsci2-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">The awesome mural at the entrance of BxSci HS (photo: BXSci)</p></div>
<p>People, can I just say how incredible it is to watch a friend teach? Even if it&#8217;s just taking brief command of a class and then turning it over to you; there is something remarkably moving about the process of watching someone you know and love; someone who&#8217;s lived a long and storied life, part of which you&#8217;ve been there for; stand in front of a class of students who could be unruly, but aren&#8217;t, in his presence.</p>
<p>Alan&#8217;s students are thoughtful and kind; smart and curious; loving and giving. They are reflections of Alan. Anyone who&#8217;s ever doubted the influence teachers have on their charges should witness something like this.</p>
<p>Later Alan took me to lunch. We had mac and cheese in the school caf. I love school cafs. We were in the teacher&#8217;s cafeteria, but whatever: same food. I only wish there were fish sticks and tater tots. Alan looks unimpressed here.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/barbaour.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-969" title="barbaour" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/barbaour-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>I, however, was impressed by the milk cartons:</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/elmoo.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-970" title="elmoo" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/elmoo-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Hello! &#8220;El Moo!&#8221;</p>
<p>Would you like to know how Alan and I met? It is a classic New York story. It was early summer, 2001. Maybe even late spring. I was working in advertising sales, and living in Astoria, Queens.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/astoria.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-972" title="astoria" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/astoria-300x172.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="172" /></a>I liked it there. On this particular late-spring day, I dashed down the subway stairs at 59th and Lex, eager to get home, and ran into a wall of people. This is always a bad sign; it means the trains are bogged down someplace and we will all get home a little later, after a sticky subway ride all the way back.</p>
<p>I breathed out, &#8220;Ugh,&#8221; and looked at the guy next to me, doing a crossword puzzle. &#8220;Wow. How long has it been like this?&#8221;</p>
<p>He looked up from his puzzle and shrugged. &#8220;Dunno. Just got here.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh, okay.&#8221;</p>
<p>I opened my book (Carl Hiasson, but I can&#8217;t remember which), and he went back to his crossword puzzle. Not long after, our train arrived, and I looked at him. &#8220;Not bad after all,&#8221; I said, and he nodded.</p>
<p>We got on the train and I promptly fell asleep, which I did often in those days. You get to knowing where your stop is and your body figures out pretty quickly how long you can nap for, but the crossword-puzzle guy had no way of knowing that. So he watched, nervous for me, as stop after stop went by and I slept.</p>
<p>At the last stop, he got up and reached for my foot to shake me awake, but I snapped awake just in time.</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh. I was just about to wake you,&#8221; he said, and I grinned.</p>
<p>&#8220;This is my stop!&#8221;</p>
<p>We walked out together, and he asked about the book I was reading. We made small talk until I got to my corner. He lived only a block beyond, and it seemed we&#8217;d been living in that small radius for the past two years or so.</p>
<p>We didn&#8217;t exchange information.</p>
<p>But we ran into each other steadily for the next few days, weirdly enough, returning books and videos; picking up stuff; things like that.</p>
<p>We never once exchanged information, and then there came a stretch where I didn&#8217;t see him. And then came moving day.</p>
<p>I was moving into Manhattan, and I took the day off to do so. I tried to pack up and then, at around 10:30, realized that I still had dry-cleaning to pick up. I locked up my apartment one last time and went down the street. I turned the corner, and bumped right into Crossword-Puzzle-Carl-Hiasson-Book-Video-Library-Train guy.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m moving today!&#8221; I squawked, or something like that.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m late to work!&#8221; he returned.</p>
<p>&#8220;Okay, we have to do something about this,&#8221; I said, and finally, finally, we exchanged information.</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve been friends ever since. Alan was with me in the days after 9-11. He&#8217;s seen me through breakups and worse; several job changes; he&#8217;s been a constant shining star in my life.</p>
<p>I know his students feel the same.</p>
<div id="attachment_973" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/NY0506-048.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-973" title="NY0506 048" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/NY0506-048-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">yes, the only photo i have of us together. so lame!</p></div>
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		<title>&#8217;sTrueth! A good time was had by all.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Mar 2010 19:19:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Jim and I spent the weekend at the Trues&#8217;. I had a ridiculously busy Friday that involved a ton of networking (which, it seems, could be a full-time job even if you&#8217;re not actually following up on any of the networking with anything concrete); took some time off for lunch with a friend here in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jim and I spent the weekend at the Trues&#8217;. I had a ridiculously busy Friday that involved a ton of networking (which, it seems, could be a full-time job even if you&#8217;re not actually following up on any of the networking with anything concrete); took some time off for lunch with a friend here in White Plains; and then bolted home to throw some final few things in a bag and drive up to Boston to squeeze in an overdue visit to an old friend before heading out to Melrose via the convoluted-but-beautiful Route 1. (Evans: Are you reading this? You are next.)</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/map.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-849" title="map" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/map-300x155.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="155" /></a></p>
<p>(Only in Boston would a relatively straight course end up looking like a misguided bowl of noodles.)</p>
<p>This route goes over the Tobin Bridge, by the way, which is stunning, to say the least.</p>
<div id="attachment_850" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/boston140538.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-850" title="boston140538" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/boston140538-300x198.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="198" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">photo: Estrip.org</p></div>
<p>Anyhow. We went to visit my friend Sarah, who had her baby boy, Jesus Jr., back in late December. I don&#8217;t know why there is only this photo of me, Jim and JJ and none of Sarah, me, Jim, and Jesus Sr. It seems people disappear when there are babies involved.</p>
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<p>Baby Jesus is cute. He is just like the teddy bear he looks to be, warm and squashy and round.</p>
<p>Jesus and Sarah took us to the really great Village BBQ, where I had beef brisket, and Jim had&#8230;something I can&#8217;t remember. Jesus had hot wings whose flames could only be quenched by tequila, and Sarah had an entire rack of ribs. Have I mentioned that Sarah is but a mere waif? I never understood where she put the food. For that matter, I&#8217;m not sure where she put Jesus Jr.</p>
<p>Then it was off to the True household for a promised weekend of mountain biking.</p>
<p>That didn&#8217;t really happen. I mean, Jim and Colin went, and came back suitably muddy. The story is that Jim executed an awesome endo, but there were no photographs. However, as these were the photos that happened that night, I think it&#8217;s obvious that everyone had a good time. Indeed, Jim look properly relieved to have gotten out of the afternoon with nothing more than a good endo story to tell:</p>
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<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/nostrilbeer.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-854" title="nostrilbeer" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/nostrilbeer-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>We girls went to hot yoga instead. It was very, very hot, although I know it wasn&#8217;t the 100 degrees on the thermostat. It was aggressive and I had some sort of aggressive woman next to me who flexed her hands wide open when she was doing Warrior and jumped back and forth with an annoying plip plopping noise whenever our instructor said to &#8220;jump or step back into upward facing dog.&#8221; You could see her tendons and she seemed to be very competitive. Anyway, Carli lost the lid to her <a href="http://waterboxco.com">WaterBox</a> and it went rolling in a lopsided confused way underneath me before she caught it, which sent me into fits of snorting laughter that, thankfully, no one but Carli heard, I don&#8217;t think. This must be why Carli and I look so composed in this photo, because all of the giggling snorts had been sweated out of us.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/lilcarlyyi.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-855" title="lilcarlyyi" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/lilcarlyyi-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Lily is a right proper angel.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/lil.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-856" title="lil" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/lil-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Most days Carli is, too. I said most days.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/earlygrimace.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-857" title="earlygrimace" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/earlygrimace-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></a>Later on that night there was watching of the most ridiculously gleeful movie ever, The Hangover. Bradley Cooper has incredible hair in that movie. And that&#8217;s all I&#8217;ma say about that.</p>
<div id="attachment_858" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 199px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/BradleyCooper1.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-858" title="Bradley Cooper" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/BradleyCooper1-189x300.jpg" alt="" width="189" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Photo: David Gabber, TopNews.in</p></div>
<p>Er. What happened just now? I got distracted. Oh, right, the weekend.</p>
<p>Perhaps one of the most cliché-and-yet-not moments of the weekend was when Colin dragged out his home videos, made back when he was, oh, I can&#8217;t remember, eight or so. People. You&#8217;ve never seen home videos like this. To be fair, they were shot by someone I think was an aspiring filmmaker (not Colin, but a childhood friend of his). There are sound effects and visual effects and great costumes and fake fighting and everything. They are from &#8220;Peter/Paul Productions,&#8221; with a proper nameplate, and they. are. hilarious. Seriously. I think I might have liked watching clips of those better than I liked.</p>
<p>Bradley.</p>
<p>Cooper&#8217;s.</p>
<p>Hair.</p>
<p>What? Ahem.</p>
<p>Okay, so we knocked off to bed shortly after that, as Jim had to get up the next morning to ride in the King of Burlingame time trial race. People. Watch the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJPwIeChtX8">video</a>. Sometimes I cannot believe Jim rides this stuff. Sometimes I am sick with envy.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zJPwIeChtX8">King of Burlingame Time Trial</a></p>
<p>Other times I look at that and go, &#8220;Agh, mud, trail erosion&#8230;eeeEEEeee&#8230;bridges!&#8221; In this case, I was not around to see the actual race; I was inside the car, trying to get a head start on editing the <a href="http://theexaminernews.com">newspaper</a>. We left shortly afterwards, and stopped on the way home to consume what would eventually be The Bane of Our Existence.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/deathpasta.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-859" title="deathpasta" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/deathpasta-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a>Doesn&#8217;t it look benign? And lovely?</p>
<p>It was, at the time. And then, four hours later, it was not, as Jim and I were rapidly overtaken with horrible food poisoning. I still haven&#8217;t decided if I can write up a Yelp review of this restaurant. Jim has fond memories of it from his days working in Groton, CT at Pfizer, but&#8230;oh, le sigh.</p>
<p>Anyway. So our wonderful weekend fizzled to a stop, as we both, in separate rooms, moaned our ways through the night (we didn&#8217;t know if it was flu and didn&#8217;t feel like passing it back and forth to each other). Jim gamely went to work Monday morning and I moaned my way through all of Monday and into Tuesday morning and now finally feel 100%. I am convinced that the hot yoga which made me sweat out all of the water in my system contributed to a slower recovery time for me.</p>
<p>Anyhow, we&#8217;re already halfway through the week, and I ahve a ton of work to do, because I have a houseguest coming Friday and things to do in the city tomorrow evening, I think, and then I am going to Haiti on Sunday.</p>
<p>Yes, I&#8217;m going to Haiti on Sunday. More on that later.</p>
<p>Bradley Cooper&#8217;s hair!</p>
<p>What?</p>
<p>P.S. Carli made this thing out of WikkiStix. I have never heard of <a href="http://www.wikkistix.com/">them</a> until this past weekend, but I was suitably impressed:</p>
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		<title>Florida, and what I found there</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 22:14:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Almost exactly a week ago I began a long trip to Florida via Philadelphia. I met my friend Bill in Philly so we could catch a plane to Florida and ShelterBox USA&#8217;s winter workshop meeting. It was terrific to catch up with Bill and spend some quality time with him, and to see other friends [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Almost exactly a week ago I began a long trip to Florida via Philadelphia. I met my friend <a href="http://thehub.com">Bill</a> in Philly so we could catch a plane to Florida and <a href="http://www.shelterboxusa.org">ShelterBox</a> USA&#8217;s winter workshop meeting. It was terrific to catch up with Bill and spend some quality time with him, and to see other friends I hadn&#8217;t seen in a long time, and meet some people I&#8217;ve been communicating with on the telephone or by e-mail.</p>
<p>Really, really cool stuff. Of course, today the work begins&#8211;I&#8217;m back to scheduling stuff and just waiting, waiting, to go on deployment while I steal a few moments here and there to devote to my other clients.</p>
<p>&#8220;Other clients&#8221;&#8211;ha! as if ShelterBox is a client! Still, I find the work they&#8217;ve set upon me interesting and a natural extension of the work I&#8217;d be doing anyway. However, now that I know I have some folks depending on some productive results, there&#8217;s an added extension of pressure. At the moment, I&#8217;m itching to deploy. It seems all of my friends are going! Agh. Nothing to do but move forward and wait for the call.</p>
<p>In the meantime, here&#8217;s some of what I saw in Florida.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/nickjimmies.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-779" title="nickjimmies" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/nickjimmies-300x225.jpg" alt="nickjimmies" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://ericasirotich.com">Erica</a> picked me up from the Winter Workshop. We got locked out of her car&#8211;it was still running!&#8211;and E&#8217;s brother <a href="http://nicksirotich.com">Nick</a> tried to make it right. Three older folks (we were in Florida, after all) stopped by to help, and two hours later, the locksmith showed up.</p>
<p>This bird seemed to think it was such a good sight that it stuck around to watch how we did.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/bird.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-780" title="bird" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/bird-300x225.jpg" alt="bird" width="300" height="225" /></a>We had lunch and then we went back to Erica&#8217;s place, where we walked Russell, Erica&#8217;s dog, and I met all of Erica&#8217;s various pets and friends:</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/erussell.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-782" title="erussell" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/erussell-300x225.jpg" alt="erussell" width="300" height="225" /></a><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/star.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-781" title="star" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/star-300x225.jpg" alt="star" width="300" height="225" /></a>There is no photo of either bunny, the cat, or the fish cos, respectively, I am a bad photographer; the cat and I had a raging fight and I have started to referring to it as North Korea, a la Erica&#8217;s boyfriend <a href="http://wufoo.com">Kevin</a>; and I did not want to scare the fishies with the flash on my camera.</p>
<p>Anyway, E and K went off to Tampa to celebrate Valentine&#8217;s Day and I proceeded to spend the rest of the night <a href="http://theexaminernews.com">editing</a>, watching the Olympics, and fighting with the cat.</p>
<p>I went to volunteer at the ShelterBox USA offices the next day. Good fun. Busy. Crazy.</p>
<p>The following day E and I went to the Ringling museum to check out the Norman Rockwell exhibit. It was way, way cool.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/eringling.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-783" title="eringling" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/eringling-300x225.jpg" alt="eringling" width="300" height="225" /></a>Cool, right?</p>
<p>And then I go to meet Lindy for lunch! Lindy! Lindy! Lindy from my ARFE life! Crazy! She&#8217;s started up her own company based around Nordic Walking&#8230;we had a really lovely day on Siesta Key, and I realized that I need sunglasses if I&#8217;m going to do this kind of thing. I mean, I have them, but I&#8217;ve been wearing my spectacles a lot, and I wanted to see everything crystal clear, so I went without on this bright day. What a moron. Needless to say, I went and ordered a pair of photochromic glasses then next morning.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/melindy.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-784" title="melindy" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/melindy-225x300.jpg" alt="melindy" width="225" height="300" /></a>We walked about five and a half miles along the incredible sands&#8230;they were beautiful. I was so grateful and happy to see Lindy. It&#8217;s not that I had despaired of ever seeing her again, but I didn&#8217;t know if we would stay relevant to each other after she left <a href="http://leki.com">her job</a> and I left ARFE. But personalities don&#8217;t change with jobs, and I always liked Lindy. Along the way we did this:</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/shadow.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-785" title="shadow" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/shadow-300x225.jpg" alt="shadow" width="300" height="225" /></a>and saw a bunch of terns lined up like a runway:</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ternrunway.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-786" title="ternrunway" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/ternrunway-300x225.jpg" alt="ternrunway" width="300" height="225" /></a>and also discovered these things:</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/seablob.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-787" title="seablob" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/seablob-300x225.jpg" alt="seablob" width="300" height="225" /></a>Lindy says they&#8217;re &#8220;seablobs.&#8221; Jim is informing me over my shoulder that they are actually jellyfish, and that he and his friends used to throw them at each other when he was growing up in Rhode Island. Yuck!</p>
<p>That night I had dinner with some ShelterBox USA board members and then drove home to hang out with Erica, read, watch some Olympics, and have a glass of wine.</p>
<p>Next morning, last day of my stay in FLA, Bev, another SRT, came and picked me up. We had lunch at Simon&#8217;s, a lovely little whole-food joint. I had some gorgeous haddock wrap thing with smoked gouda and a mango salsa. Yum.</p>
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<p>it was an hour ride to the airport filled with terrific conversation, then, and I thoroughly enjoyed myself.</p>
<p>I had a great time. It was well worth the effort to go down there. If I hadn&#8217;t, I doubt I&#8217;d be either as energized or as overwhelmed by the work ahead. In the end, the added energy and sense of cohesion about the organization&#8211;and face time with key folks, friends, and admin alike&#8211;make it all worth it.</p>
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		<title>In the mud</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have read a lot of words these past few days, working on the local paper doing some copy-editing and writing for them, and then reading a working draft for a friend of mine. Busy is good, but the past few weeks have left me with very little inspiration for my own work, or even [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have read a lot of words these past few days, working on the local paper doing some copy-editing and writing for them, and then reading a working draft for a friend of mine. Busy is good, but the past few weeks have left me with very little inspiration for my own work, or even my essays, which are due in a work or so for the MFA applications.</p>
<p>So here&#8217;s a photo dump.</p>
<p>We went home on the 22nd for the hols and spent the night before going back to Claremont with my brother and his fiancee, Laura, making sugar cookies.</p>
<p>They were not the most perfectly shaped things:</p>
<div id="attachment_730" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/b.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-730" title="b" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/b-300x225.jpg" alt="Xmas trees, not shrubs." width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Xmas trees, not shrubs.</p></div>
<p>And then we frosted &#8216;em.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/finish.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-731" title="finish" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/finish-300x225.jpg" alt="finish" width="300" height="225" /></a>Apparently I enjoyed myself.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/pig.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-732" title="pig" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/pig-300x225.jpg" alt="pig" width="300" height="225" /></a>I also got smacked down for making this cookie, which was, in Laura&#8217;s words, &#8220;Not your best work, Yi Shun.&#8221; Hmph.</p>
<div id="attachment_733" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/tree.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-733" title="tree" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/tree-300x225.jpg" alt="To be fair, Laura added the weird white drizzling. " width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">To be fair, Laura added the weird white drizzling. </p></div>
<p>Then we went home to Squaremont on the 23rd. We went to the <a href="http://www.rsabg.org/">Rancho Santa Ana Botanical Garden</a>, where I&#8217;d only been once before. I thought it absolutely gorgeous. There is something really magical about a desert garden and the sheer variety of desert plants.</p>
<div id="attachment_734" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/forgot.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-734" title="forgot" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/forgot-300x225.jpg" alt="I've forgotten what this is. " width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I&#39;ve forgotten what this is. </p></div>
<div id="attachment_735" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/manzanita.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-735" title="manzanita" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/manzanita-300x225.jpg" alt="This is a manzanita berry shrub. Isn't it gorgeous?" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This is a manzanita berry shrub. Isn&#39;t it gorgeous?</p></div>
<div id="attachment_736" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/wintersage.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-736" title="wintersage" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/wintersage-300x225.jpg" alt="Winter sage, paired with manzanita berries. Love the contrast!" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Winter sage, paired with manzanita berries. Love the contrast!</p></div>
<div id="attachment_737" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rancho.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-737" title="rancho" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/rancho-300x225.jpg" alt="Fishbowl!" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Fishbowl!</p></div>
<p>My town is best known for Mt. Baldy, which serves as our everyday backdrop and has nice bowl skiing when it&#8217;s not dusty and dry out. I haven&#8217;t been there in years, but the view of it is always in my head.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/memtbaldy.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-738" title="memtbaldy" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/memtbaldy-300x225.jpg" alt="memtbaldy" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>Adrianna spent the night on Christmas Eve (we banished mom to the living room and Jim, Adri and I cooked). Mom got drunk later. I didn&#8217;t get nearly drunk enough.</p>
<div id="attachment_739" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/drunkmama.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-739" title="drunkmama" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/drunkmama-300x225.jpg" alt="testing the tonality of her wine glasses." width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">testing the tonality of her wine glasses.</p></div>
<p>We had a very active Christmas Day. We all exchanged presents and then we went for a walk in the hills with like, a gazillion other people who all had the same idea.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/pneguinparents.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-740" title="pneguinparents" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/pneguinparents-300x225.jpg" alt="pneguinparents" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>My parents look like bookend penguins in this photo. adorable. I look like a treetrunk.</p>
<p>And then we picked up Kara and went to Laguna Beach to sample some incredible <a href="http://www.yelp.com/biz/o-laguna-beach-laguna-beach">Japanese food.</a> First we had more exercise in the form of a nice walk along the beach.</p>
<div id="attachment_741" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/friends.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-741" title="friends" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/friends-300x225.jpg" alt="I love this photo! Two of my favorite people are smiling!" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">I love this photo! Two of my favorite people are smiling!</p></div>
<p>When we finally got back to New York, our friend Dave was happily ensconced in our place awaiting our arrival. Then Dave left and Jody arrived. We spent a lot of time doing this:</p>
<div id="attachment_742" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/splitends.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-742" title="splitends" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/splitends-300x225.jpg" alt="sitting on the couch in our PJs, I mean, not picking at split ends." width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">sitting on the couch in our PJs, I mean, not picking at split ends.</p></div>
<p>And then there was New Year&#8217;s Eve. Alan and Helene came up to a very loud place in White Plains. We ate a lot of food and had some margaritas and then we exited the madness, but not before this photo was taken.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/NYE2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-743" title="NYE2" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/NYE2-300x225.jpg" alt="NYE2" width="300" height="225" /></a>And then the next day we went to Jen&#8217;s for a New Year&#8217;s Day party</p>
<p><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/NYD.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-744" title="NYD" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/NYD-300x225.jpg" alt="NYD" width="300" height="225" /></a></p>
<p>And I think that&#8217;s quite enough photos for today, don&#8217;t you think? Meh.</p>
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		<title>Gwen Bell&#8217;s Best of 2009: New person</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yi Shun Lai</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[ New person. She came into your life and turned it upside down. He went out of his way to provide incredible customer service. Who is your unsung hero of 2009?
I am really, really behind on this one. I&#8217;ve been thinking about it for a really long time&#8211;there are several new people in my life [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong> </strong><em><a href="http://delicious.com/gwenbell/%23best09-person">New person</a>.</em> She came into your life and turned it upside down. He went out of his way to provide incredible customer service. Who is your unsung hero of 2009?</p>
<p>I am really, really behind on this one. I&#8217;ve been thinking about it for a really long time&#8211;there are several new people in my life currently, people I&#8217;d really like to give a shout-out to here, but I must confess that the person who sticks out like a big bruised thumb is not new at all.</p>
<p>I speak of one <a href="http://meetmeatthemissionatmidnight.blogspot.com">Colin True</a>.</p>
<div id="attachment_721" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 235px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/typicalcolin.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-721" title="typicalcolin" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/typicalcolin-225x300.jpg" alt="typicalcolin" width="225" height="300" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">this is colin. yeah, he&#39;s my person of the year. you got something to say about that?</p></div>
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<p>Why pick Colin? The answer is manyfold. First, our relationship is indicative of the randomness that makes up the best of friendships. (I met one of my closest friends to date on a subway platform.) Second, I am a firm believer in serendipity. Third, I am also a firm believer in asking for something you want. Fourth, I believe in networking. Finally, I believe in the concept of working on your true passion.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s why Colin fits all of these parameters:</p>
<p>1. Random humor: We met while I was working on ARFE, a not-for-profit dedicated to making the environment a key priority for outdoors athletes. His company, Timberland, was a key sponsor via their SmartWool and GoLite brands, and Colin was a part of that. One day, in confirming a meeting, I riffed off some random old English&#8211;something stupid, like &#8220;My good sir&#8211;I am herewith confirming our rendezvous at the hour of blah blah and at the watering hole of so-and-so&#8230;&#8221; Imagine my surprise when Colin replied in like fashion, even throwing in a farmboy (The Intern) and signing himself Lord of GoLite. I about crapped in my pants laughing. I wish I&#8217;d kept that stupid e-mail.</p>
<div id="attachment_722" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/colinjimyi.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-722" title="colinjimyi" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/colinjimyi-300x225.jpg" alt="colinjimyi" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Among Colin&#39;s favorite activities is mocking dead people!!</p></div>
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<p>2. Serendipity: Years later&#8212;and I do mean years&#8212;I was sitting at the airport in Phoenix, on my way to Las Vegas for <a href="http://www.interbike.com/">Interbike</a>, when I had a thought: Would GoLite or Timberland, and therefore, Colin, also be going to Interbike? I sent a text message. Alas, Colin was no longer with GoLite or Timberland, but he was <em>in the Phoenix airport.</em> Yeah.</p>
<div id="attachment_723" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/FatTire.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-723" title="FatTire" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/FatTire-300x225.jpg" alt="Here is just a glimpse of what happened at Fat Tire Narnia. Don't you wish you were there???" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Here is just a glimpse of what happened at Fat Tire Narnia. Don&#39;t you wish you were there???</p></div>
<p>3. Just ask: Colin and his lovely family included Jim and me on an invitation to <a href="http://thegooddirt.org/fat-tire-narnia">Fat Tire Narnia</a>. We speak, of course, of the famed weekend that involves mountain biking, good beer, and friendship. Of course we said yes. I never expected that we&#8217;d be included in Colin&#8217;s initial invitation, but I&#8217;m glad it happened. Much hilarity ensued. You never know who&#8217;s going to say yes, and what will come of it, but you&#8217;ll really never know if you don&#8217;t ask. Jim, too, learned a lesson here: Be brave, get to know new people. Perhaps you will meet someone who will kick your ever-lovin&#8217;, mountain-biking patootie, finally.</p>
<p>4. Networking: Ours is a winding path&#8211;ARFE had its heyday in 2006!&#8211;but I&#8217;m glad we stayed in touch. There are many new opportunities, some work-related, others not, to be had if you just ensure that you stay in touch, and life is so much richer if you can let your brain free-associate. People are whole packages, gifts to be opened. Everyone out there has something to offer you, and it behooves everyone to consider that in our everyday interactions.</p>
<p>5. Work can be your passion: Colin is a trail-runner, a mountain-biker, a snowshoer. His family shares his passion for all of these things. More important, in the time I&#8217;ve known him, Colin has worked on Timberland, GoLite, at CitySports, and now is a key player at a new company called <a href="http://www.waterboxco.com">Waterbox</a>. Waterbox is going to be a raging success because Colin and Canice, the founder of Waterbox, live the lifestyle they&#8217;re preaching, at the intersection of style, art, and the outdoors.</p>
<div id="attachment_724" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><a href="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/familytrue.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-724" title="familytrue" src="http://thegooddirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/familytrue-300x225.jpg" alt="Family True. Happy! And outdoors! Imagine that!" width="300" height="225" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Family True. Happy! And outdoors! Imagine that!</p></div>
<p>Colin&#8217;s wife Carli is a teacher, and she, too, follows her passion. I hope their daughter Lily does the same with her life. She&#8217;s got great role models.</p>
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